Thinking Of Leaving Gambia; Read This First!

Alhassan Darboe  By Alhassan Darboe

Readers and watchers of news recently, would recall the reasons of many Gambian migrants rescued by Italian rescue boats, on why they risked their lives in the Mediterranean Sea for better life in Europe. It is now a common occurrence to see an obviously grateful but rescued Gambian migrant reeling off reasons why he/she fled The Gambia for the shores of the west in search of the proverbial greener pasture and freedom from Yahya Jammeh’s Islamic State. It seems despite His Excellency Sheikh Professor Dr. Alhaji Yahya Jammeh’s best efforts to appear to be doing something to turn The Gambia into West African Singapore and have Gambians stay and make it in their own country, Gambians are still migrating or shall I say fleeing en-masse like never before seen in the history of The Gambia. Building The Gambia’s first ever University is a good thing, building roads and supplying villages and towns with electricity and pipe borne water like my native Gunjur is even a better thing .However, we have electricity and it is erratic these days and getting worse by the day .Human rights violations and lack of the independence of the Judiciary and corruption have gotten worse. And, inexplicably, the exodus of Gambians – intellectuals and non-intellectuals, skilled and unskilled, brains and brawns – is puzzling. What is more, the destinations and means by which these Gambians immigrate are no longer just the U.K. and the U.S. or even by flight. To my utter consternation and surprise, Gambians are now immigrating to South Africa, South Korea, Thailand, Dubai, Italy, Argentina, Mauritania, Algeria, morocco, Western Sahara, Ghana, Nigeria, Antigua, Guyana, Trinidad& Tobago, Hong Kong and even Mexico. You may be surprised to know that Gambians are notorious for being the biggest drug dealers in Hong Kong. Hardly does a day go by without me getting a call from a class mate or friend stuck in Libya or Agadez asking for some help to cross into Libya or pay for a boat to Italy.

From my research at the time of writing this article, until the late 70s Gambians left mainly for the U.K. to study. Once they graduated, they returned home, obtained employment either in the civil service or the private sector, obtained a car, maybe a Volkswagen Beetle, or Volkswagen and settled down to a blissful life. Majority of those who left in those days were children of the rich whose parents had the money to sponsor them. Others were lucky enough to win scholarships to Sierra Leone and Nigeria like the currently jailed Gambian opposition leader and freedom fighter Lawyer Ousainou Darboe. In either case, they went abroad on student visas and knew that a job was waiting for them at home once they graduated. So, while in the U.K. They lived the life of a student. If they had a part-time job, it was only to supplement whatever stipend they received from their parents or sponsors. If they had a fiancé or fiancée before traveling, in most cases, the lovers were rest assured that the relationship would lead to fruition.

But today’s travelers or semesters as they are mostly called in The Gambia are of a different stock. Since I left The Gambia about half a decade and a year ago I have met few Gambians who went to the U.K./US, obtained their degree and returned home almost immediately. In many years of being in the U.S., I have never met anyone who just came here to study and returned home. I have a cousin who tells me every year that he is packing his bags and getting ready to go home but it has since been six years and he is still in America. In fact, most of the people who now travel abroad do so to find work. If they study (and many do), they settle down here and swear never to return to Gambia except on vacations or after retirement. Those who do not study also settle down and swear never to return to The Gambia except on vacation. Why is it the case that many Gambians do not want to return home?

The answers to the question apart from the state of human rights and economic situation at home have their foundation in the truism that it is easier to leave Africa and The Gambia particularly than to return to re-settle there permanently, in spite of whatever anguish you endured before obtaining your visa. When you left The Gambia, probably some 10, 15, 20, or 30 years ago, you were by yourself. You had only one luggage; no wife and no children. You were in your mid- to late- 20s. If life was pretty bad for you, you were in your 30s. Your friends were around your age. You lived with your parents or other relatives. And if you were not that lucky, you rented your own place. Your friends also either lived with their parents, relatives, or rented their own places. You didn’t have a car; and if you did, it was a jalopy. Now fast forward to 30 years later. Forget about the 10, 15, or 20 years listed above, for it would take you about 30 years to attain any semblance of meaningful living either in the U.K. / U.S. or anywhere in the West if you did not win the lottery and you were not a drug dealer.

As you plan to return to The Gambia, the fact that it is easier to leave Gambia rather than return to it hits you smack in the face. Do you have a place of your own to which you could return? If you do, does it meet the standard of living befitting of a person who had lived overseas for 30 years? What would you do for a living in The Gambia? Get a job in the civil service? Get a job in a private corporation? Start your own business? Is your wife (if you are a man) Gambian? Is she a black foreigner? Is she a Caucasian? Is she Hispanic or Asian? Does she have the qualifications to work or do business in The Gambia ? What about the children? If you spent 30 years abroad, your oldest child is probably 25 years old and out of college. Is the child returning with you to Gambia or staying back in the U.S? (The child is probably staying back in the U.S.) If you spent 30 years abroad having left Gambia when you were about 30 years old, what sort of thing could you do at the age of 60 to earn a good living in Gambia? How exactly do you re-enter the Gambian work force at the age of 60? And those friends that you left behind 30 years ago; where are they now? Surely, some have now graduated from Gambia University and gone abroad to do their masters and quickly return home to their positions after graduation, some are now managing directors. Others are now very senior civil servants. Yet others are now university professors like my friend Ensa Touray who never left the shores of the Gambia but got all his education at Gambia university (actually a Masters’ degree) and doing well as a history professor .And oh, since it is the era of politics, some are now legislators, special advisers, and ministers and senior magistrates and judges like my friend from Nusrat High school Omar Jabang who graduated from Nusrat 6 years ago at the same time I did. You might even find a few who are governors! You must question where you stand in the society. Lol.

Of course, successfully returning to Gambia and re-integrating yourself into the society is contingent upon the fact that you had been visiting the country on a regular basis in the past 30 years ( I go at least once every year and loved it). How easy have those visits been? When, since you first traveled, did you begin to visit Gambia? Two, five, 10 years? It depends. It depends on when you “normalized” your stay. It depends on when you obtained a resident permit, otherwise known as the green card. How did you obtain that green card? Well, let’s see.

Thirty years ago, you could not have earned a visa lottery, because there was no lottery system. You either traveled on a student visa or a visitor visa. If you have parents living in the U.S., they could apply for an immigrant visa (another form of resident permit) for you. But if you traveled on a non-immigrant visa (student or visitor visa), the most likely route available for you to “normalize” your stay was to marry a U.S. citizen. It sounds pretty simple right…marrying a U.S. citizen? Well, not only is it not that simple, it is also illegal to marry someone just for the purpose of normalizing your stay. What right thinking woman (or man, as the case may be) would want to marry another person for fraudulent reasons? This is not to say that people did not do it (or are still not doing it), but you can be very rest assured that that “marriage” would be the worst nightmare of your life. True marriages in the U.S. already break at about 50 per cent rate in the first two years. And these are marriages between Americans who share the same culture. Now, throw in a fake marriage between a naturally “over-bearing” and “chauvinistic” Gambian, African man and a naturally “liberated” American woman, and you may have concocted a recipe for matrimonial disaster. My own marriage unraveled just after a year but I was lucky enough to still keep my green card despite being divorced with my temporal green card years ago.

While your fake marriage inches on (it takes about two year sometimes to obtain a green card and another three years to obtain American citizenship), you find yourself a job, a menial job. You would still take a menial job as a construction worker, a taxi driver (I used to be a cab driver before I become rich), a newspaper vendor, a security guard, a floor and toilet cleaner, a landscaper, a fast-food cashier, a baggage handler at the airport, a greeter at a hotel, a dish washer, or a bus boy (one who clears the table at restaurants). Name the menial job, that’s what you’ll get as a new-comer to the U.S. With the green card you acquired at about your 6th or 7th year in the U.S. (if you are fast and seductive enough), you will remain at the bottom level of that menial job unless you return to school here and get trained in some other vocation or profession. Nursing is one of the favorites among Africans, however I prefer real estate and establishing your own business.

One of the good things about being a green card holder, or a citizen, is the fact that you could obtain financial aid in the form of loans, and even grants (you don’t have to pay back grants), in order to pay for your education and sundry issues. Remember, nothing is free in America. In America of today, you will have to cough up anything from $20,000 – $50,000 (annually) in university education cost. It should be no surprise to you that 25 years after graduating, you are still paying back that loan.

So, during the time you are paying back your student loan, it stands to reason that you are probably also paying back your car loan. If you have lived in this country for 12 years and have not owned your own house, other Gambians, especially in materially obsessed Gambian immigrant hubs like Seattle, Atlanta and Minneapolis begin to look at you funny because your rent will be around the same amount you would pay in mortgage if you owned the house. Why not buy then? Depending on your credit rating and taste, you will borrow hundreds of thousands to purchase a house. So, at some point in your life, you will owe student loan, car loan, and mortgage at the same time. Payments on these are usually due every month. Unlike The Gambia, you will also have to pay for gas and electricity. Lord help you if you have a phone because, along with your gas, electricity, and water bills, your phone bill is also due every month.

Did I mention already that you would have a wife and children too? Well, along with those monthly utilities bills are the daily (if not hourly) non-specified, unexpected bills to be paid on the children. Whereas in your village, you could send your wife to her parents and your children to their uncles and aunties for help, here, you are basically on your own.Gah!! And as you grapple with balancing your checkbook by taking a second job, you get word from your village that your mother is ill; or niece or nephew just secured admission to The Gambia university and you begin to curse why that Dictator Yahya Jammeh built a university and didn’t make it tuition free in the first place. You look at your bank account and you find just enough money to pay your bills at the end of the month (or no money at all because you just paid your bills); you decide to ignore the call from home because self-preservation is a sacred order. But your conscience keeps knocking; you remember that Dad had to sell part of his farm to see you through school in the village; you remember that mom spent countless nights in the hospital when you were dying of malaria like my mom did for me when I was admitted at RVTH for 6 month in 1996. I actually watched Jammeh’s first inauguration after being voted to power in the parlor of the RVTH hospital with other recovering patients; you remember that your best friend who has now joined the chorus of people needing money back home contributed his last towards your visa fees. Even if you wanted to lie to them that you were broke, you couldn’t make a convincing case; what about that picture you sent home showing you in front of a huge house with two nice cars in the garage? What about that picture of you, your wife, and children standing in front of the fireplace in a well-furnished living room? What about the picture of you guys at the park, in the pool, at the beach, playing around as if you have no worries? What about that last time you visited The Gambia and convened a meeting of the entire village at the village Bantaba, where you doled money out to everybody, including those that did not even ask? Now you are in a quandary; conscientious but broke. You weigh all your options: do any of the problems require your physical presence in The Gambia? Or could you just borrow more money and send home? If you send money home, how much is too much; how much would reinforce the erroneous notion in the mind of your folks that you are rich?

You consider the totality of your life in the U.S. – the fact that at 60, you are still taking the trash out; you are still washing your own car; you are still washing your own clothes; you are still sweeping and vacuuming your own house; you are still mowing your own lawn; you are still doing groceries. You consider the fact that for 30 years you really did not make any real friends here. Somehow, you just found yourself holding more to the friends you left in Gambia rather than make new ones here with all the drama, gossip and fake smiles. .

At work, you find out that you have reached an impenetrable glass ceiling. Your employers will not promote you anymore because…er…you look different and speak different, even though you remain the most valuable expert at the office. You find yourself in a rot, doing the same thing over and over for years. So, you seriously consider returning to The Gambia. You make a “wetting the feet” visit to The Gambia, smartly testing the water before taking the plunge. People tell you that owning your own house before coming home is a no-brainer. You start to look for a piece of land. Lord helps you if you are lucky as land is becoming more and more expensive thanks to infrastructural development and uncontrolled population growth

Anyway, you find a plot of land in, say, Brufut, Bijilo, Gunjur, Sanyang, or Tujereng . You jump through the hoops to obtain ownership of the land and draw up a building plan. Now, are you going to remain in your village until the house is completed or are you going to return to your base in US/UK? Of course, you will have to return to your family and job abroad while your house is being built. Are you going to hand the construction of your house over to a friend or relative? Lord helps you if someone else is monitoring your house construction for you. You can be sure to pay twice what it should normally cost you for the construction of that house. And it may not even be without structural defects! I for one thank God that my brother did an amazing job with the house I built in my native Gunjur and didn’t over charge me.

After building your own house, you now return to the questions raised before: when and how do you leave the U.K. or the U.S. for The Gambia? What would you do for a living in The Gambia? You then begin to think about the whole idea of leaving Gambia in the first place. Was it worth it at all? Yes, it may have given you an initial leg-up when you left, but has not the law of “diminishing returns” set in? The family and friends you left in The Gambia, some of whom you used to send money, did not remain in the same place you left them. You find out that they, too, have gone to Gambia University and got their bachelors and master’s degrees, have built their own homes. If they are in the civil service, they have accrued a substantial retirement benefit. If they are in the private sector, they have also put away enough assets for retirement years. All of them have attained positions of authority and influence and have contributed to the growth of their communities one way or the other. Their children have obtained university education and have gone on to bigger and better things. Your family and friends have done all these without leaving The Gambia except on vacation or refresher courses abroad. They have achieved so much while enjoying the cathartic effect of being around childhood friends and extended family members.

And as you weigh this question, your nephew calls from The Gambia and asks for assistance in immigrating to the U.K./US. You ponder and grappled with the question: should you tell him that it is not worth it? If you did, would he not accuse you of not wanting him to do “as good as you have done”? You decide you will just give him enough of the pros and cons and leave him to make the decision. And you pray that he decides to stay home and keep looking for that job or maybe enroll in a program at The Gambia University then get a better job afterwards and stay home happily ever after.



  1. Mr Darboe , your piece is a brilliant assessment of immigrant’s life in USA and it is a true reflection of our current state of affairs . You are absolutely right that no one is planning to finally return home except for vacation or after retirement . I have never seen anyone these days who is advocating or planning to return home . For majority of Gambian immigrants , USA is a land of no return because immigrants find it extremely difficult to return home after years of living in USA or other western countries as you indicated .I think our unwillingness to return home has to do with poor human rights situation in the country , poor economic growth and lack of democracy . Recently , countries like Ghana have seen the return of their citizens after the restoration of democracy and sound economic growth . Gambians must learn from Ghanian experience and Play a leading role to restore democracy , rule of law and sound economic policy for the betterment of ordinary citizens and to serve as encouragement for diaspora to return home . The truth is that most Gambian immigrants give false stories and hopes to citizens back home and this has been going on since the days of early travelers in 1960s. When I was leaving The Gambia , I gave six months to my poor mother because I promised her that within six months I will be rich and I will build most expensive house in the country for her . After few weeks of living in USA , I came to realize that I made an impossible promise to my mother because of wrong and false stories or beliefs I had about living in USA . I never regretted why I left The Gambia because I have seen significant Strives in my life in terms of personal growth , experience and knowledge and the thousands of Gambians can said the same story since they left The Gambia . However , life in the west is very different from that of The Gambia . Personal responsibility and choices are important factors which determine the daily decision making process in USA .
    I think this article is a true reflection of immigrants lives and it should be used as learning curve for those who aspire to come to USA . Though In the article , I didn’t see student life in terms balancing work and school or those immigrants working two jobs to make a living , I think it worth mentioning that tremendous hardwork by the immigrants to achieve their dreams and to help their families back home . Thank you .

  2. ArseFootball

    That was a brilliant piece Mr Darboe.
    Spot on and beautiful.
    I have been leaving in the Uk for a while now and can identify with a lot of the above.
    However, I believe with time people will create their own opportunities back home, to give them the will and reason to go home.
    In the beginning, lot of people come to-say England to study and go back to their jobs-mostly higher positions or pay,
    Then, they started staying a bit more, working a lot harder to make some money before going home,
    Then staying a lot more and then ending up staying for good- for mostly reasons deliberated above.
    Mostly working in security jobs, cleaning, joining the army, restaurants. Etc.
    But now most are acquiring good university degrees/professional qualifications and either securing well paid jobs in here or starting their own businesses employing family and friends-which is beautiful and to be commended.
    However to be able to do this at the highest level, highest standards consistently will be difficult to maintain.
    You can only go as far as they/system here allows you to- and when you get to that level, it becomes very difficult to remain motivated.
    Am hopeful, with a right change of environment, policies or right playing field back home- people will start looking for alternatives.
    What is a better alternative than a raw/untapped place like The Gambia.
    The tables will start turning and people will start rethinking the need to continue staying in an already stressful Europe/Usa.
    The world is getting harder for everyone and very soon we will all realise that-we all have to help sort out the mess we are leaving behind/running away from.
    They hate our guts here-seeing us overtaking them in their countries, as they are made to believe or is actually happening in certain communities is killing them or very hard to fantom and you can’t blame them.
    How will we feel if this was happening to us! – say in a prosperous Gambia.
    Look at what what was and is happening to other African immigrants in Angola, South Africa. Etc.
    Dont be fooled by those fake smiles at work, roads etc, They hate our guts.
    Wonderful piece and remainder Mr Darboe.
    Well done.

  3. Mr Darboe you really great you have to write a book about this. Is that what I use to tell to my friends but the take as a full. But I don’t know what the believe, going back home to star is more difficult than going out of home. Let god help us. Is very sad to live you homeland just for better life it’s don’t have be in this way 😪

  4. Tonya…….

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